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We all know about the downward spiral, but how do we create the upward spiral in our lives?

I’m not going to sugar coat that life is no bed of roses half the time, and there are many times we linger in the waiting room of life?

I usually find myself in a waiting room here and there. Right now, there are 2 big things I’m waiting on and they are fully out of my control. I’m sure you can identify an area of your life where you wait for answers.

This is a big part as to why the downward spiral begins.

We lose sight of the blessings in our life and slip from the place of gratitude to a space where we are focused solely on what we don’t have.

When we get thrown into the waiting room of life, what we don’t have is answers and us peeps really don’t like that – it’s uncomfortable to the max!

We don’t have answers on a diagnosis, housing, job status, money coming in, the health status of loved ones or a relationship status.

Waiting rooms are real and painful places to have to visit.

And to add insult to injury, the point of the waiting room may not ever become evident in our lifetime.

You may actually never get closure, answers, reasons for bad things that happened, explanations about why this happened. 

We may never know. We may never get to the real reasons why things didn’t work out.

The truth is that some things work out and somethings don’t.

Holding the belief that everything that is happening is happening for your highest good to draw you closer to your authentic real aligned self where you get to live a life in full expression of what your soul is here to express is key in creating the upward spiral in your life.

It’s that mind shift, the thinking, the thoughts that will eventually shift you from downward to upward.

You have to remember life is not happening to you. You are happening to it.

Again, and for emphasis… (really let this become a deep core belief and it will serve you greatly!)

You are happening to life, not the other way around.

You are not a victim of your circumstances.

Ever.

This is so hard – so hard – to remind ourselves of when we have been beat down by life and it feels the floor is coming out from under us.

You may be in what feels like a downward spiral, but when we catch that within us, we can reverse it.

The sooner we reverse the downward spiral the better.

And how do we do that?

We do that by asking.

Ask for help.

Speak up to YOU about what you desire. (Personally, I wouldn’t go around sharing your deepest desires with very many people unless you can find a safe person who will 100% have your back! Otherwise, people have a natural tendency to nay-say your dreams and keep you small. There is so much psychology behind this, mostly due to the fact that we are tribal by nature and for safety’s sake {& other people’s fear of losing you} you shouldn’t break-free from the norms of society.)

Don’t hide and tuck away your plans in the basement of your heart – truly pulling those dreams into a place where you can clearly state what it is you want with confidence – this is the moment you will reverse the downward spiral and create upward momentum.

Complaining about your circumstances will not get you to that place.

Neither will making fun of other people, judging others.

Being on your phone and watching TV 24/7 doesn’t help much either. 

I’m not saying any of these is bad but you really have to question what this does for you!

The questions to always ask yourself is this: How is this serving me?

If it is serving you, then it is serving the world!

If it is not serving you, then it is taking away from the light of the world.

We are all connected, and your good vibes and energy have a massive impact as they resonate out into the world.

And because the only thing in your control, truly, is your mind and choices of how you want to feel, then that is your main job to make sure you are spreading some good vibrations.

If you really want to master the art of creating and sustaining the upward spiral in your life, become familiar with integrity.

Integrity is not just being a ‘good person’ or following a moral code. I don’t use that as a definition at all.

Integrity is doing what you say you are going to do and not wavering, and when you don’t do what you say you are going to do, then being forthcoming and owning your mistakes.

It’s being in integrity with your word to yourself which starts as baby steps.

Baby teeny tiny steps in making promises to yourself, keeping the promise to yourself, and then making another one and keeping it with yourself.

Getting so good in keeping your word to yourself that you absolutely don’t have to deal in low level emotional vibrations of shame and guilt.

That’s how you love yourself.

That’s how you trust yourself.

That’s how you build a solid relationship with yourself.

Some times for so many of us, it’s easier to keep our integrity with a perfect stranger more than it is with ourselves. We have disregarded ourselves is such a way that everyone else is more important. {This used to be so true for me and I know it’s still true for so many of us!}

All of this will help you shift into the upward spiral and this is the goal, so you can spend more time in a beautiful freeing, joyful, happy energy and share that with your neighbours, regardless of the circumstances you find yourself in.

Same goes for your money.

You need to reclaim your financial independence and start creating the upward spiral with your money. Savings integrity, spending integrity, integrity with your business and financial goals.

Don’t forget…

You are a wealthy woman.

It’s time to reclaim that and when you do, you…

Live Your Legacy!

xx Lisa

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There is always one thing you will end up having to answer to in your life.

One thing that will demand your full attention at some point.

• You will get ill if you don’t answer it.
• You will gain weight if you ignore it. (Yup!)
• You will feel financially burdened if you push it aside.
• You will struggle in all areas of your life if you decline its call.

Your heart. ♥️

That is what you must listen to. Its call is strong and powerful. Its echo vibes through your entire core and energy field.

Set your heart free to wildly beat and watch your dreams unfold before your eyes.

You will attract to you all that your heart desires.

But you must FREE it first. (And that is scary because that means putting yourself out there vulnerably!!!)

This is one recollection of that ✨MAGIC✨ that happened for me when I ventured out to NYC on my own, 2013 and set my heart free to be as wild as it could be.

?I got to dance and sing in Times Square alone. There were no people in Times Square… it was a rare and precious moment. I had a Blackberry and selfies weren’t a feature on phone yet so you had to flip your phone around and hope for the best!
?I got to have my Holly Golightly Breakfast at Tiffany’s and cross off the one thing on my bucket list.
? I met a lovely soul from Bangladesh on the Bow Bridge in Central Park and we exchanged moments of heart felt songs that changed our lives. (I shared with him ‘Emmanuel’ by Chris Botti and he shared with me a Gershwin Song. Truly, loving humans are all around if you are open for them and wanting to connect with you?)
?I got to stay in one of the original hotels in NYC and my first night there I crawled out of my hotel room up onto the shady fire escape and screamed at the top of my lungs, “HELLO NEW YORK!”

Subsequent trips to New York after this also included me launching my company over 6 years ago from a Midtown diner and singing Karaoke Nancy Sinatra in Times Square amongst many other shenanigans and stories I’m sure I will tell you over a coffee one day…. or in my next book. ?

The universe will dance with you when you ask it to dance. {This is also a choice, a decision, a request which must originate from your soul.}

So what does money have to do with this?

Honey, don’t grind and struggle your way to making money.

It actually wasn’t meant to be hard. {Hard is only a mindset!}

Adopt the mantra that money flows easily to you.

Follow your heart and what turns you on – the same way a lover would!

Love and Money are truly of the same vibe for attracting it!

Be clear in what you want, WANT what you want, go after it and have zero restrictions on the outcome.

Life will surprise you, the same way love does.

Money will easily flow to you to allow you to play out the deepest desires of your heart.

There is a lot of trusting here. Trusting in yourself and the universe.

There is a lot of letting go here.

There is a lot of listening and taking divine aligned action when called to do the work.

Do the work.

But here’s the thing about your heart♥️ –

It was never meant to be ignored.
It was meant to be FREE to LOVE & LIVE WILDLY! ?

Live Your Legacy!

xx Lisa

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This is actually a skill.

A skill requires thought and effort and is training to do a particular task.

Collapsing time frames is exactly that.

Getting to your desired goal faster.

Why is this important?!

Because you can create BIGGER results in your life.

So what’s one way to do this.

Be BOLD. Go after exactly what you want. (Note: this actually requires you to know what you want. Most people haven’t figured this out yet!)

Don’t pussy foot around.

Be specific. Very specific

And then…

Have the hard conversations. Have the hard conversations. Enrolment conversations.

Just do the thing that brings you the most fear.

Do the thing.

The only way you will ever create what you want in your life is to go after the BIG goal.

The BIG one.

Not the small baby ones.

Go after the BIG goals.

I have one, I’m working on it.

I have zero clue how it’s going to turn out.

But I’ll keep you posted.  Oh, and the point here is always this.

Release.

Release the expected outcome.

You have to be suspended in the air for a few minutes of sheer panic and fear and be okay with it.

That’s the only way you will step into the bigger life that you can only dream of.

The only way is to commit and let go of the rung and fly through the air.

I talk about this all the time. You need to commit to letting go as equally as you commit to grabbing on to the next big thing in your life.

I’ve done this in many areas of my life. It’s always scary.

There is always fear.

But here’s the deal: there much less BS in your life when you are direct and go after exactly what you want.

Much less.

And when there is less BS, there is less resistance

Less resistance means you’ve cleared the energetic path to actually manifest the big things you want in life.

And once you manifest the big things, you can go onto the next and hence, you can collapse time frames in your life.

Again why?

Because you have a BIG life to live!

You weren’t here to play small. 

So don’t.

Do the hard work.

Collapse time frames and…

Live Your Legacy!

xx Lisa

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Wisdom.

Wisdom is from within. It is not from outside or something to attain or something even to ‘try’ for.

All the wisdom you will ever seek is already available to you when you connect to the perfect loving source.

You don’t have to be 80 or 60 or 40 to have wisdom. Wisdom is available to all.

It is not external to you or some wise words said by any prophet. Those are called revelations as they ‘reveal’ to you what your soul has already known but forgot.

Your soul is timeless and wise because it is what connects you to your unlimited perfect divine source of love, but you have to ask for that wisdom and receive it.

Wisdom is trusting that everything is happening for your highest good. EVERYTHING. The good, the bad, the ugly.

Trusting that the universe has you in the exact perfect place – that’s wisdom. Trusting.

Wisdom is putting your trust in things unseen, also called faith.

Wisdom is knowing that you are 100% responsible for your thoughts.

Never forget that your:
Thoughts
? create your
Feelings
? drive your
Actions
? produce your
Results

In ALL the things.

Wisdom is being able to identify your circumstances as facts without the added story your brain defaults to and then powerfully choosing the thoughts that will serve you and the world in love. {Byron Katie – “Is this true? Where would I be without that thought?”}

Wisdom is knowing you can choose the thoughts that will literally transform your life to be the life of your dreams full of peace, joy and love.

Wisdom is also knowing that you are never responsible for anyone’s feelings (this is still hard for me who wants to make sure everyone is happy and not disappoint anyone! Still. Even after a decade of working on this exact thing!)

Wisdom is also knowing that you get to hold yourself to a higher standard than those around you and you don’t have to be anyone but yourself.

Wisdom is knowing it’s not your job to make anyone else happy. That is their job. Wisdom is knowing that it’s your job to make you happy and in return you will bring more light, life and love to the world.

Wisdom is holding yourself in the highest esteem and acting in integrity with your word to yourself and then naturally having that overflow into the world.

Wisdom is knowing it all starts with you and not with your neighbour.

Wisdom is holding strong but loving boundaries that serve you.

Wisdom is knowing the more you choose love and forgiveness and a servants heart the better the world will be.

Wisdom is knowing that LOVE is a win-win-win every time. If it’s not a win-win-win, then technically it’s not out of love.

True love shifts the world.
Transforms it.

LOVE wins every time because it is perfect in all its ways… that is what wisdom knows.
❤️

Live Your Legacy!

xx Lisa

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It’s about trust.

It’s about trusting your gut.

It’s about trusting your instinct.

It’s about trusting your intuition.

It’s about TRUSTING YOURSELF!

ALWAYS! FULLY! 100% COMPLETELY!

This means: DON’T LET THE OUTSIDE WORLD TELL YOU ANY DIFFERENT!

This means: DON’T LET WELL MEANING PARENTS, PARTNERS, KIDS, SISTERS, BROTHERS, COACHES, COUNSELLORS, BOSSES, CO-WORKERS, GOVERNMENT and FRIENDS TELL YOU ANY DIFFERENT!

This means: YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO NEEDS TO APPROVE AND TRUST AND BE IN LOVE WITH YOUR IDEAS for your business, for your body, for your life, for your money, for your investments, for your relationships, for your education, for your travels, for your home.

And trust me when I say this is HARD because the world will still throw out their opinions on your life, even when you have not requested they do so.

It’s so difficult not to be swayed by the opinions of others.

Are you trusting yourself or relying on others for their opinions about your life or your choices?

You get to fall in love with your choices. You get to go through the journey of the beautiful consequences of your choices. You get to live your FULL life in the way you desire.

And that is how you serve others from a place of being FULL of abundance in all the things: money, love, happiness.

And then you able to give even more back to the world with your abundant life.

? That’s how this works. ?

But this all starts from a place of TRUSTING yourself and having your own back and truly tuning into what your life is meant to look like.

This also means you can change your mind, you don’t have to stick with one thing.

You are allowed to course-correct.

Trusting means choosing and then trusting your choices.

But first you must make a decision and choose what it is you want from life.

Life will serve you up exactly what you order, you just needed to make the order first.

So many people haven’t ordered what it is they want out of life, and they get just that.

Decide and Trust.

Know there is no wrong choice and every moment and choice and decision is brining you closer to everything you ever wanted and is an important part of your story.

That’s what deep trust is.

That is how you..

Live Your Legacy!

xx Lisa

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What happens with things go bad?

There are things in your life that will go horribly wrong.

When you are sitting in the muck of it all, I know offering solace to saying things like, ‘this is for my highest good’ is NOT helpful.

I know this, you know this.

You have to sit in your grief, your loss, your heart-break, the fact that things didn’t go as expected.

I write this actually about investments.

I have had hundreds of clients come to me over the years to tell me about their heart-break.

Okay, so yes, I’ve handled many divorces and financial break-ups, but this is not the heart-break I’m talking about.

It’s when your investment goes sour.

So many people have taken on BIG RISKS in their past, investments that didn’t work out.

This happens.

I can speak to this.

Why?

This has happened to me too.

28-year-old me.

Half-a-million dollar investment.

South.

And ya, it’s taken me YEARS of processing and working through it.

And I’m still working through it because I’m still paying for it every month, for at least the next handful of years.

It is heart-breaking to lose large sums of money to any investment that goes south.

The truth is this.

You do have to get to a place where you deeply do hold the belief that this is all happening for my highest good.

And then make resolve that you are going to take these lemons and utilize them to make you bigger and better.

When it comes to investing, heck, when it comes to anything in life, if you aren’t experiencing heart-break at somepoint then you aren’t trying hard enough.

I say kudos to the dreamers who put everything on the line to go after their dreams.

Don’t look down on those people because luck plays a big part of this.

Half will make it.

Half won’t make it.

I don’t even know at the end of the day which camp I’ll be in, and truly, does it matter?

Isn’t it worth trying for something big and amazing then just playing life small?

I’m not saying playing small is a bad thing. It’s good to be cautious. That’s what I teach my clients.

However, there is a time and place when you need to go ALL IN energetically, mentally, financially, phsyically.

That is the moment when you committ that the universe has your back.

THIS OR SOMETHING BETTER.

That’s the mantra.

You go for it.

You don’t look back, and above all you don’t hold onto how the ending looks.

You release the outcome.

You have no choice in the outcome.

You become stronger through this process.

You do it all over again.

Sometimes you will have a win. Many times you won’t.

Enjoy the process.

Grieve when you lose and celebrate the wins.

You have to firmly adopt the belief that everything happening to you is for your highest good, and it will be so.

You will always win when you can find the beauty in your disasters and when things go wrong in your life.

That’s how you…

Live Your Legacy!

xx Lisa

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Are your dreams abundant enough?

This means – are your dreams actually big enough?

Or do they fit into the confines of your current life narrative?

I wonder who in your life is actually challenging you to dream bigger?

The truth is that most of us are surrounded by people who don’t want us to grow too much!

Why?

Because that is scary for them.

It’s scary to humans to lose their comfort zones, what makes them feel safe and part of a tribe.

YOUR DREAMS do not fit into OTHER’S IDEALS.

Other’s want you to stay the same.

We don’t like change on a good day.

Obviously we don’t like ‘bad’ things happening to us, but the truth is – we also don’t really want TOO GOOD of things happening to us or our people as that threatens the status quo and creates change, and change is BAD according to our primitive minds.

This threatens our ‘fitting in’.

Trust me. Nothing is scarier than going after what you want.

WHY?

Because you are standing in your BRIGHT BEAUTIFUL POWER and that naturally threatens those that haven’t valued themselved enough and don’t feel worthy enough to do the same themselves.

This is what is hard.

Oh, and you get the haters.

Okay, so they may not throw tomatoes at you, but they sure do like to nit pick you and pin point all your mistakes or just be grouchy with you.

The humans really REALLY don’t like change because it threatens their life and could mean that they have to change.

When you change & transform, this points a spotlight on the person observing your change & transformation and makes them re-evalute their life.

So, I’m enouraging you to rip it all down, come back to the blank slate of the present.

This present moment.

And begin new.

What do you want?

What are you not getting right now in your life?

Where are you stuck?

What is a dream you are too afraid to dream because your life will literally look 180 degrees different?

Is this something you want to go after?

To be fair, most people don’t want a 180 degree different life.

Most of us are pretty comfy in the lives we have.

Plus its safe.

Are you will to be completely uncomfortable to go after what you want?

There is no right or wrong answer by the way.

It’s great if you don’t want to go after a different life and you are happy.

Contentment is an important place to be as well.

But if you read this and its knawing at you and you know there are changes you need to make in your life to step into your full abundant dreams that you see for yourself, then you need to take the actions to make that alignment happen.

SO MUCH is waiting for you on the other side.

SO MUCH is available to you.

SO MUCH magic and miracles.

It’s all energy just sitting in escrow waiting for you.

It’s your job to take the actions and go out and get it.

Dream bigger for yourself and for the betterment of humanity!

Do this and I promise everyday you walk this earth you will be a light and….

Live Your Legacy!

xx Lisa

PS. If you want to get a jumpstart on your financial dreams and business, you need to book a complimentary Financial Clarity Call with me at jumpstartyourwealth.ca!

How you do LOVE is how you do MONEY!

Think there’s no correlation? Think again.

The parallels are uncanny – especially when it comes to your money!

It’s simple to explain because money is just energy.

They type of lover you are is exactly the same relationship you are cultivating with your money! (How you do the little things, is how you do everything!)

And how you are treating your lover is probably a good indication of what is happening with your money.

Are you a generous lover?

Are you a stingy lover?

Selfish? Giving? Good at receiving?

Your essence – it’s kinda the vibe you are putting out into the world and how you do everything!

This also doesn’t just apply to your “lover” skills! This also applies to how you LOVE yourself!!

Okay, so you know, back in the Bible when the J-man talked about the 2 basic commandments.

1. Love God (Love the universe, higherself, etc.)
2. Love thy neighbour as yourself.

WHOA! Houston we have a problem! It’s the second one.

You see the problem is how can anyone love their neighbours when they are struggling with self-love first.

HENCE, you must be GREAT at self-love before you can love your neighbour as yourself.

The problem in the world is that we need to cure a whole lotta self-issues, like the lack of love and forgiveness we need to give ourselves.

Once you really love yourself, then and only then are you able to pour out your excess love onto others.

You can’t love when you come from a place of lack.

OH – and how that works with your money is like this:

You are always attracting money to your life on some frequency.

When you are not in a loving, grateful state you are actually putting out the vibe of deflecting money from your life.

None of what I speak of manifests instantly, sometimes it will, but usually it takes the universe a while to reorganize itself to align to the things you want to specifically attract in your life, this includes money.

The universe has to orchestrate a whole lot sometimes to makes sure things align so you can get what you desire.

Your job is to hold the focus, the vibration.

That means being a good lover.

To especially yourself and then pour that out into your external world.

It’s how this works.

It doesn’t work the other way around.

You can’t wait around for the world to love you!

That’s not the world’s job.

That’s not anyone’s job but yourself.

This is why there is so much suffering in the world.

It’s because so many souls expect LOVE to come to them when they need to BE and EMBODY the LOVE FIRST.

Be a CAUSE in your life and you will receive the desired EFFECT.

That’s the secret to being a good lover.

That’s the secret to drawing in abundance of money!

Oh my love, I hope you read this and have nothing but LOVE for yourself.

Those that get this truly shine.

It’s a beautiful day.

Go out and….

Live Your Legacy!

xx Lisa

PS. If you want to take this conversation deeper in your own personal money journey, then you need to book a Financial Clarity Call with me, Lisa Elle at jumpstartyourwealth.ca! I want to help you clear the path for money to flow with ease in your life!

You’ve all heard of setting SMART goals.

S = Specific

M = Measureable

A = Actionable

R = Realistic

T = Time Frame

The corporate world has wrapped this acronym up with spades.

It’s definitely loaded with masculine energy.

But there’s a better way to set goals.

The SMARTER way, if you will.

There are 2 very important letters missing from the SMART formula.

The E and the R.

And this is where we drive the whole setting SMARTER goal process home!

The E is for EMOTION.

Anyone can set a goal without emotion.

I will make $1,000,000.

But what is that tied to?

It needs to be tied to an emotion.

Emotion is our most powerful point of attraction.

We need to FEEL IT IN OUR BONES!

That’s the level of feeling you need to bring to your goals and dreams – extreme passion and excitement and desire!

If you don’t care about your dreams and they don’t excite you, neither does the universe!

Then there is the R..

The R stand for REALIZE.

Realize your goals before they happen in your mind.

This is beyond the first dimensional SMART goal you were taught to write down and create at your last business conference.

This is beyond the second dimensional visualization of a dream board you were told to put together and stare at.

This is third dimensional and above work!

This means you are feeling it, seeing it, imagining it, happening right now before you.

This means that your mind actually believes this is happening to you right now.

That’s NEXT LEVEL goal setting.

This is where you need to be when it comes to what you want out of life

Most of us live life luke-warm with luke-warm goals at best!

Don’t let LIFE pass you by with some watered down approach.

FEEL into your dreams.

They were given to you for a specific reason.

You have an important role to play in the symphony of humanity.

Play your part.

LOVE your goals and dreams and surely you will…

Live Your Legacy!

xx Lisa

PS. If you want to truly uplevel your financial goals to be SMARTER, then you need to work with me and book your Financial Clarity Call at jumpstartyourwealth.ca!

The cosmic univseral blessing is that we were ALL able to become UNBUSY in 2020.

Being BUSY is actually totally passé.

And if you haven’t received the memo yet, here it is:

Being BUSY is uncool.

There is nothing uplifting or beneficial you receive in your life from being in a state of busy.

It’s time to outsource and create lots of white space in your calendar.

In that white space you make time for your PLAY and CREATIVITY.

If you feel like all is suffering in your life and its not fun anymore, it could be because you are loading yourself with too much “should do’s” and not enough “white space”!

And now as we are going back to adding things back into our calendars, the key is to remember to do only the things you absolutely love to do.

But on the the topic of being busy – it needs to leave you forever.

Being in a state of busy means you are not taking the time to reconnect with your higherself and tune into the areas in your life which may be totally off kilter.

This is important if you want to be healed, create great relationships or create financial abundance in your life.

You want to bend space and time?

Become UNBUSY!

Leave room for the creative dance in your life – that is also a secret key to abundance in all the areas!

What’s one practical way to do this?

Schedule in “ME TIME”.

Mark it on your calendar.

This must be time alone – no partner, no kids, no work – purely the time you need to maybe walk, read, think, meditate, draw, write, pray and listen.

But even harder for us die-hard busy people is to make sure we are doing this every day and doing it consistently.

THAT is how you uplevel into a space where flow naturally aligns with your life.

THAT is how you connect with you and the divine.

THAT is how you connect to your abundant birthright.

Make time to be unbusy and allow for all the miracles to happen in your life –

They need the space too because let’s face it –

WHEN YOU ARE BUSY YOU ARE SQUEEZING OUT THE MIRACLES IN YOUR LIFE!

So become unbusy.

Really connect back into the deeper meaning you want from life and let go of all the extracirricular activities that – let’s face it – no longer impress – but STRESS!

That my love, that is how you…

Live Your Legacy!

xx Lisa

PS. If you want to unbusy your life and uplevel in all the areas, you need to start with your money and by that, you need to start with a Financial Clarity Call with me! Book yours now at –> jumpstartyourwealth.ca