You know how people always ask you what superpower you want?
Everyone wants to fly, or time travel.
I don’t.
I just want one superpower.
And my superpower is something that I can actually get without having to defy the laws of gravity or jeopardize the space-time continuum.
I just want confidence.
Seriously.
If I had all the confidence in the world – what would I look like? What would my bank account look like? What would my relationships, love, sex, business, communication, body, health look like?
I decided this is the superpower I want. And lucky for me, it’s something I can totally sink my teeth in.
I wrote a while back (2016) on how to get killer confidence (and let’s be honest, I am too lazy to go back and read my old blogs {Wealth Spa™ members can check it out in the membership site} So, I actually have ZERO clue what advice I spouted back then!)
I have now decided you need 3 things to have killer confidence, and every time I feel I can’t step out in confidence, or stand in my power, it’s usually because one of these 3 things are missing.
3 Things You Need To Have Killer Confidence:
- Knowledge/Education/Learning/Skill
- Clarity
- Belief
That’s it. That’s my formula for confidence.
And truth be told, I do actually have some killer confidence.
- I have 100% confidence I can sit on a chair
- I have 100% confidence I can brush my teeth
- I have 100% confidence I can shop for shoes
These things I have practiced many times and know how to do them (knowledge/skill), make a decision & set out to do them (clarity) and know that I will accomplish them with 100% accuracy (belief).
However, there are things I know (knowledge I possess), and set out to do (clarity around what I want to do), however, self-doubt (no belief) creeps in and therefore my confidence is shattered.
I usually get 2 out of 3.
I’m sure most of us get 2 out of 3 for any area we want to have true confidence in.
The one MAGIC thing in this SUPERPOWER FORMULA where I usually get stuck is the BELIEF part of the formula.
Belief in my abilities. Belief in myself. Belief that I am worthy or that I have what it takes to bring my dreams to reality.
And I also know this is where my clients and most humans really get stuck.
We go to school and get the knowledge, the education.
We get the clarity – and even that’s a tough one sometimes.
But where most of us fail in this confidence thing is the BELIEF that it is really possible for us.
If you really believed it was possible for you, where would you be?
If you had all the confidence in the world, where would you be?
What do you need to do to really believe in you?
Live Your Legacy.
xx
Lisa
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